August 12, 2009

Joseph E. Davis (aka Grandpa Strawberry)
























That's my great-grandpa, Joseph E. Davis. The E standing for just that, the letter E. He was born April 1st (April Fool's Day!) 1913, just one year after Arizona became a state. He turned 96 last April and passed away July 1st, the day before Brooklynn was born. I think he had to get up there before Brooklynn and my cousin's baby, Clancy, were born to warn them about what a crazy family they were coming to and to love on them before they had to face this telestial world. I have such fun memories of my grandpa.


















(Grandpa Strawberry at his 95th birthday)

We called him Grandpa Strawberry. He and grandma lived in Strawberry, AZ for many years in a house they built with the help of family. It was easier to call them Grandma and Grandpa Strawberry than to try and distinguish between Great-grandpa Davis and Grandpa Davis. So to us grandkids he was Grandpa Strawberry. He taught us how to smell the bark of pine trees and distinguish between the chocolate, strawberry, and vanilla ones. Don't believe me? Go for a hike in Strawberry, AZ and I promise you will smell a neopolatin array of pine trees. He played baseball with us, pushed us on the tire swing at a nearby property, took us on the best nature walks, took us four-weeling in his old mail jeep (some of us consider those rides awesome memories while others, ahem Erin, remember them as harrowing rides where the jeep almost tumbled down hills). He would literally tell those in the jeep to put their hands out to brace against the mountain and keep the jeep from tumbling down it. I am among the ones who consider them awesome memories :) The local squirrels ate out of his hands and the javelina and him were friends. He had a way with animals. He played Monopoly with us until all hours of the night and woke up early to make a big, heaping breakfast complete with hot chocolate made of milk and Nestle Quick.

















(Grandpa Strawberry at his 94th birthday seranading us all with his harmonica)

Oh I could go on and on about what an amazing man he was. He was the hardest workers you have ever met and his stories could keep you entertained for hours. My mom is serious when she calls him "one of the last of the tough guys". He always made people feel at home and never was short on candy to offer, especially chocolate covered peanut clusters :)















(Allie's blessing. Grandpa Davis, Grandpa Strawberry, Allie and I, and my mom. I can't believe how different my mom looks now!)

I feel blessed to have known my great-grandpa so well. When he moved to Arizona we were sad to see our memory-making years in Strawberry over, but excited to have grandpa closer. We made many more fun memories here in Mesa. He loved hiking with us in the Superstitions and never turned us away when we came knocking on his door. Allie even knew exactly who great-great grandpa was and says what a "good, good grandpa" he was. She and I both got to be with him a couple of days before he died. She held his hand, talked to him, and then ran off to play with the fun little trinkets around his house.

















(Grandpa Strawberry's homeade gifts. Rocking chair, table, napkin holder, and basket.)

Grandpa Strawberry was in the greatest of health until the last few years, and even that was just the normal things like eyesight, hearing, etc. But don't tell him it was because he was 96 years old! He hated when people reminded him that he how old he was. That didn't mean anything according to him! Especially when the hospital staff told him that "his 96 year old body...", you would have thought they were talking bad about his mother by the reaction he gave! "Don't you look at that birthdate! That number doesn't mean anything! Don't you judge me by that year!" And most of the time he did it with a smile on his face.















(Grandpa and I at my wedding)

I was blessed to have Grandpa Strawberry as one of the witnesses in my wedding and one of the men in the circle at Allie's blessing. He gave us a rocking chair he made as well as a children's table he made. Since he has past I have also been able to get a napkin holder and basket he made. He was so good with wood and tools. He gave me, Allie, and the rest of our family members memories that will always be with us. I am so grateful for what an amazing example he was of working hard, spending money responsibily, loving your family, keeping your temple covenants (he had just a few months ago renewed his temple recommend...at 96 years old!), and always remembering to have fun. Again, I could go on and on about all the fun memories I have of him and all the wonderful things he taught me. I'm so grateful that Heavenly Father was kind enough to take him quickly instead of letting him linger on in the condition he was in (which had come so suddenly it seemed). I'm so grateful for the Plan of Salvation and the testimony I have of seeing Grandpa again in his perfected body. I look forward to the day where I can go on walks
with grandpa again!



















(Allie at Grandpa Strawberry's house last Sunday. The family is working on going through his things and dividing it out so that everyone has the opportunity to have something of Grandpa's and Grandma's.)















(Nick and I sitting on Grandpa Strawberry's couch. I had to get a picture on this couch. It is a beautiful couch and he has had it for years and years. You would never know though because it is in perfect shape. Sitting on it reminds of me of sitting on it in Strawberry in their livingroom by the stone fireplace.)
(This is what Allie got from Grandpa Strawberry's house. Grandpa and squirrels just go hand in hand. Allie really liked playing with these little squirrels when she was at his house. She tells everyone they are her "special, special squirrels" and that they "have to be very, very careful with them".)

We are dogless...

and it's a very weird feeling.













I always had a dog growing up and Nick and I got Kasey 6 months after we got married. She was the cutest red queensland heeler puppy. Nick wanted a heeler because his grandparents always had one on the ranch. He loves everything about his grandparents ranch. The tiny, tiny town feeling, the horses, the stables, the cattle, the river that runs through the property, the acres of crops to water and tend to, and of course working side by side with his grandpa. I think having a heeler reminded him of the summers he spent working from sun up to sun down cleaning stables, fixing water lines, eating cheese with grandpa, and shooting the bull with the neighbors who stopped by.



We loved Kasey, we really did. She was the best dog. She was super easy to potty train, she got along with other dogs, she let Allie hit, push, and pull at her, she never once growled or snapped at another person, she let Allie play in her food dish while she ate, and (without training her to do it) we could take her off her leash and let her run and know she would come back as soon as we said her name. Truly, the best dog. Unfortunately our lives have become too hectic to devote to a dog like a queensland heeler. They are working dogs. They are supposed to be rounding up cattle, not sitting in a tract home backyard. We finally decided last Friday, after talking about it for months, that in fact we were being selfish for keeping her. What if she misses us?! What if she feels like we abandoned her?! What is there to miss? The occasional walk we would take her on? The occasional throwing a Frisbee in the backyard or tennis ball at the park? We call ourselves dog people, but it's only because we like dogs. Not because we consider them one of our children and treat them as such. No, it would be better for Kasey to be in a home with true "dog people". It was hard for Nick, and me too, but mostly for Nick to agree to the ad on craigslist. "Please," I thought, "just hurry and let a good family come and take her. If she has to sit on craigslist for more than a week it will break my heart and I will have to take it down." Luckily, Sunday we got a call on her. It was a guy calling for his girlfriend's mother. She has had queenslands for years and recently one of the dogs died. She has property for the dogs to run, a pool that she lets the dogs swim in, and lots and lots of love to give. He was surprising her with Kasey. She had always wanted a red heeler. Perfect! When he came to look at her he had a treat pouch on his side and talked about what a good dog she was! What good eye contact she kept! Good eye contact? Ah yes, I was reminded that I was not a true "dog person". He is a dog trainer and was excited to work with a dog as smart as a heeler. He promised to walk her every day like he does with the other heeler and that they don't get rid of dogs so Kasey would be in a permanent home. He even told us we were smart in realizing we couldn't give her the time she deserved and deciding to give her to someone who did have that time and ambition.





So, long story coming to a close: we will miss Kasey a lot. Mostly because we knew what a good dog she was and how well behaved she was, but also because it reminded Nick of Grandma and Grandpa Giles. Allie will definitely miss her (we think it just hasn't set in yet that she isn't coming back). We are so grateful she went to a home where she will be loved. Nick and I agreed we need a little dog that can run around in the house and the kids can play with. Maybe someday...

August 8, 2009

My pretty girls...

A friend of mine, Lexi Morris, came over and took some pictures of the girls when Brooklynn was 10 days old. I think she did such a good job! She is just starting to take pictures and always says she has to give her disclaimer of "I am not a professional, so I can't guarantee anything!", but I think they turned out beautiful! I'm so happy with them. I wish we would have taken more of these kinds of pictures with Allie, but you live and you learn I guess. These are some of my favorites. Thanks so much Lexi!




















I love her little pouty lips and chubby cheeks.

What a cute little profile.















This one cracks me up.
I love her face in it...so serious.





Oh my Allie girl...I love you!








August 4, 2009

Allie Mae

My posts lately have been all about Brooklynn, so I thought I'd post something about Allie. I love my Allie girl. She is my best friend and often tells me that very thing. She also tells me that I'm a "good, good sharer" (when I share something of mine with her) or that I'm a "good, good mommy". Those are the times when feel like I must be doing something right. Allie is such a sweet little girl. She has such a strong personality though! Where does she come up with some of the things she says?! She keeps us laughing. She always says her describing words twice. For example: "good, good mommy", "this is very, very special to me", "he is a grouchy, grouchy man", etc. She is so good with Brooklynn. She loves to run and get her a paci when she's crying. I have to remind her to not push it super hard into her mouth, but she is such a big helper. Here lately she's having trouble listening and following what I say, but I'm sure the poor girl is still adjusting to not being an only child. I am so grateful to have Allie in our family and can't imagine life without her. She was such a trooper while I was going to school. She sits at the computer now and says, "No mom, I can't do that right now. I'm just doing my homework!" Apparently I said that a lot to her. Poor baby. She is awesome at going on the potty, she loves to help me make dinner (and help me taste test :), which is normally fine, but tonight I turned around and she was licking a fork she had just rubbed around on the raw chicken...never a good thing...), she loves to help fold laundry (and is surprisingly good at it), color with markers and cut with her little scissors, take baths with Brooklynn, hug and kiss all over Brooklynn, watch movies, sing songs, read books, and dance to any kind of music. There are days we butt heads, but I'm pretty sure it's because we know how to push each other's buttons. But for the most part we are the best of friends. She can't decide quite what she wants to be when she grows up. The other day she said she was going to be a doctor-princess-nurse. She also claims she wants to drive a cement truck (every mother's dream for her little girl). She knows that she wants to work at the hospital though with mommy, and grammy Jean, and Rick (my mom's boyfriend). She loves driving by the hospital and saying, "Mommy, what do you see!" I need to be better about writing down our conversations because they are a crack up. The other day she told me "You are a good, good mommy!" and gave me a big hug. So I said, "Thanks, Al. And you're a good, good daughter." She gave me a dirty look and said, "No mom! I'm a girl! I'm a good, good Allie girl!" and then sighed. Silly me for thinking she was a daughter when really she is an Allie girl! Whenever we sit down at the table to eat, whether it's lunch or dinner, she will ask, "So mommy, how was at school?" or "So daddy, how was at work?" Then we have to ask her "So Allie, how was at (and ask various questions)" to which she will answer, "Good. Good, good." I'm glad that she gets that the dinner table is where we talk about each other's day...again, I must be doing something right. Right? We love our Allie Mae!


























Quick...someone tell me I'm not a bad mother!










What's all that hair from you ask? Could it be that Nick trimmed his goatie? Could it be that I trimmed Allie's hair? (Well I did do that a couple of days ago, but that's not it.) I can't believe I did it, but...*tear* I shaved Brooklynn's head. I know, I can't believe I did it either! But something had to be done! I know that she's a girl and you should only shave boys' heads, but seriously it needed it.











Do you see what I mean?! It was bald in the front and the back was getting long and had a ton of hair. From the back you couldn't even tell she was losing hair! It had been driving me crazy and I didn't know what else to do. I kept thinking that when it did finally all grow in the different lengths would be really dramatic. So I did it...I shaved my poor baby girl's head. I was seriously almost in tears about it!










Allie was born with so much hair that I could put a clip bow it in when we left the hospital and it never fell out! Brooklynn had a full head of hair when she was born, but for some reason the hair has only fallen out on the front half of her head.












These are pictures of Allie in the hospital. Look at all that hair! And like I said, it never fell out!



BEFORE...






AFTER...
Oh I still can't believe
I did it!






She is still our adorable
baby girl...but now more
than ever I need to buy
hair bands!

August 1, 2009

I See the Moon...

When I was little we would always go to Grandma and Grandpa's house on Sunday night. All the uncles, aunts, and cousins would come, too. We ate popcorn, drank kool-aid, and the little kids played while the adults caught up on the past weeks activities. I have such fun memories of Sunday nights at Grandma's house. The worst punishment our parents could give would be to stay home on Sunday nights instead of going to Grandma's. What on earth would you do just sitting at home on a Sunday night?! I'm sad to say that over the last couple of years Sunday nights at Grandma's have not happened every Sunday like they used to. The price of gas, families moving out to Queen Creek, and some of us kids getting married and creating our own families have made it harder to commit to every Sunday night. We are hoping to at least set aside one Sunday a month that the whole family can commit to. Right family?! Right?! Well, one of my favorite Sunday night memories was walking out to our cars with Grandma and Grandpa. Grandpa would either carry us or hold our hands and walk with us. As we walked out he would ask us where the moon was and we'd laugh while finding it together. Then he'd sing "I See the Moon". I loved listening to Grandpa sing. I was shocked the other day when one of my cousins didn't know the words to this beloved song! It proved to me that we need to be better about spending Sunday nights at Grandma's! I have enjoyed singing this song to my girls (it's so fun to say girls, plural!) and Allie loves singing along with me. She asks me to sing it to her every night before bed. Tonight I asked if she would let me record her while she sang so that great-grandpa could hear her. Surprisingly, she agreed! She threw in "Mr. Golden Sun" while she was at it :) So this video is for you Grandpa! Thanks for all of the fun memories and I am so grateful you are able to make memories with my girls. Allie adores you! Love you Grandma and Grandpa!!

"I see the Moon. The Moon sees me.
Hiding behind the old oak tree.
Please let the light that shines on me,
Shine on the one I love."

Here's What We've Been Up To...


Allie's read lots of books to

Brooklynn.

Dancing in the rain

Feeding our babies...

and making sure to burp them

well afterwards.

Eating ice cream with

Grammy Jean.

Taking pictures upon Allie's

requests.

Taking naps with sisters.

And taking baths with sisters.

Enjoying visits from Erin and

Steven.

Visiting little Clancy Kent

(Brittany's new baby!)

Taking naps with Daddy.

Just sitting around enjoying

our sweet baby.

Enjoying Brookie lynn's smiles.

Tummy time!

Trips to the park (and being

eaten alive by mosquitoes!)

Trying new recipes (stuffed

bellpeppers) with Allie calling

out ingredients :)

Lots of big sister kisses!

Making whooley mammoths

with Aiden (what a good mommy

Aiden has!)

Stories before bed.


And most of all...enjoying being

together!!